Thursday, 26 December 2013

Adalyn's 2 1/2 year update


Adalyn is exactly 2 1/2 in 7 days.  I haven't written anything about how she's doing, what she's up to and in to these days, and I'm sure I will be wondering in a few years when our next child is this age!

Our little Adalyn is a very sweet, kind, happy little girl.  She has a very even tempered personality and doesn't get rattled too easily.  She plays really well with almost any child, though she's not a big initiator.  If a kid doesn't show interest in her, she doesn't make an effort to change that.  She avoids conflict and doesn't really get into fights over toys much, it seems to happen mostly when she's already tired.  She likes to test the boundaries at home and often tends not to listen or obey until we make a threat.  That could be her age at this point...  hopefully?!!  When she's tired she gets destructive and deliberately rebellious.  Thankfully this only really happens when she needs to sleep.  She's also very eager to please.  Hmmm...  wonder where she got that trait?!

She has been playing a lot better on her own in the last month and doesn't follow me around every where I go, though that still happens some days.  She still loves to help me with things, but that is also fading as she plays more on her own.  She is playing a lot of pretend these days.  It is SO cute to watch her take care of her dolls and stuffed animals, just like they are real babies.  Some how she knows exactly what to do with them.  Her favorite thing is to feed them supper.  Another toy she is really using a lot is her Fisher Price Little People house.  They are always doing interesting things too, like going potty, and going for naps.  Go figure!  haha  She loves her duplo as well especially the cars, trucks and train, and is often asking for us to build a house with the blocks.  She sets up all the men to watch a movie in the house after it's done.  She is very animated in her play!  She is listening to stories a lot better now too, without wanting to turn the pages immediately. 

She is talking using sentences now and can say most anything she wants to.  Some times she gets muddled up with the order of words, or you can see her thinking hard about what she's saying which is really cute.  She still says some words wrong even though she knows how to say them properly.  Pillow is usually pippo.  Music is still mekicks.  Adalyn is still Anoun.   When she says open it is usually shortened to op and carry to care.  She tends to talk 'baby talk' when people come over, or will not say anything at all.  This is the case when I try to take videos of her too. 

She eats really well and a lot most of the time.  She is a fruit monster, but doesn't really like her vegetables.  That is the one thing we have to really force her to eat.  It's probably because I don't make vegetables on their own enough.  They're usually mixed in with something else.  She doesn't eat lettuce.   I'd say fruit is probably her favorite food at this point.  She also loves avocados.

She is a really good sleeper, though naps have been weird lately.  A month or two ago she was napping for 1.5 hrs very consistently and then one day she stopped.  I thought it was just the day, but the next day was the same and the next and for a whole week she didn't nap.  I knew she needed the sleep because after quietly talking and playing in her room for her whole 'naptime' I would let her out and she would be grumpy, getting destructive with no attention span, obviously tired.   A few times I went for a walk with her and she fell asleep right away each time.  So that has become our new nap routine.  She plays and talks quietly for about an hour, she wants to get up -- usually to go potty now -- and then I make her go back to her room and she usually ends up sleeping for her 1.5 hrs again.  We have to be pretty stern about her going to sleep though which is sad to me.  She's added an hour to my alone time in the afternoon though which has been AMAZING!  :)  She will usually wake up from her nap around 4:00-5:00 and goes to bed around 8:00.  Then she sleeps till 7:50 at which time I usually wake up from her calling out 'I peed Mommy!  Mommy, I peed!'  That is in the potty...  :)

She's basically potty trained.  Today she had her first nap with panties.  She's been dry for naps for about a week or so now and dry during the rest of the day for quite a while.  She still has trouble with the poop though.  I sometimes think she just doesn't have patience to sit there to wait for it because she definitely knows.  I still don't feel super confident with her going out with panties on and so we have still been using pull-ups for going out.  Night time is still a diaper too and it's usually full in the morning. 
 

Monday, 16 December 2013

Jesus brings joy

We had Mark's extended family Christmas gathering this last weekend.  There is still the tradition of sitting around singing Christmas carols, reading the story of Christmas and then opening gifts.  They also have a time of sharing.  I don't know if it was my pregnancy hormones combined with being very tired, but I was feeling very weepy during the singing this year.  Adalyn and her cousin Isabelle were twirling and dancing in the middle of the group the whole time we were singing.  They had such big, beautiful smiles on their faces, laughing and 'singing' too, not caring at all what anyone else would think, just happy and so very innocent and free in their joy.  The singing is always very enthusiastic and loud at this gathering and I thought maybe the little girls were being a bit distracting, but as I looked around the room and saw the smiles and laughter on others faces, I knew this is what worship is about and though I wasn't necessarily thinking about the words of the songs, I was drawn to think about Jesus and the message of Christmas.  Two words we often hear at Christmas are joy and peace.  Jesus came to bring joy and peace on earth, and I really felt His presence there in that moment, in the joy and love on the faces of all 45 some people in that room.   It is such a beautiful thing in this world to see how when a family follows Jesus and teaches their children about Jesus how true that message becomes.  Especially in this day when you look around at the world and see all the heartache, pain, and trouble that has come as a result of sin.  I am so very thankful for the family God has blessed me with.   Both in Mark's family that I married into and my own family.  Praise God from whom all blessings flow!  Praise Him for sending Jesus to save us from our sins, so we can be free to experience and know real peace, joy and love and all things good! 

Sunday, 1 December 2013

Things I look forward to about not being pregnant

There are some people who I talk to who say they love being pregnant.  I'm not one of those people.  I would rather carry a new baby in my arms then in my body any day.  (Now ask me in a month and a half and see if my answer is still the same. haha  :) )  I know what a beautiful thing it is to be able to carry a child like this.  It's a gift from God and I don't take it for granted, but I FEEL so unlovely during pregnancy.  This is definately a time when feelings are not reality and I have to remind myself of this over and over again.  I was thinking the other day that I feel like a big whale, but reality is that I am so privileged to be carrying a child who is being developed and formed just right by an Almighty God.  What is going on in my body right now is truly a miracle.  On that note however, here are some things I am looking forward to in about a month's time...
1.  No more heartburn
2.  Being able to bend over properly
3.  Sleeping on my stomach
4.  Hugging Mark without my big belly in the way
5.  Going for a walk without huffing and puffing or aching or wondering if I'm doing too much.
6.  Getting into shape again and running!
7.  Baby's hiccups outside the womb will be a lot less annoying!
8.  Being able to have hot drinks in the morning again without it affecting my bowels
9.  Gas issues will be solved?!  
10.  Holding Adalyn on my lap comfortably.  (Then of course there will still be a baby to hold too.  :)
11.  Zipping up my jacket without it stretching
12.  Wearing sweaters fashionably.  My maternity sweater collection is very limited if not non-existant.
13.  Shopping for real clothes and being able to buy things on sale
14.  Going in the hot tub!

Just a few of the things I can think of now.  I would say sleeping through the night, but I know that's not going to happen for a while yet again...  In fact that part's only going to get worse I imagine.  Oh dear.